Letting Your Feelings Out of the Cage

“If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.” African Proverb A few months or a lifetime ago (virus deaths are like dog years), I wrote a blog on the loneliness epidemic. Americans, in spite of technology, are some of the loneliest people in the world due to […]

THE CROW’S MESSAGE: The Differences Between Depression and Despair

“Despair is a haven with its own temporary form of beauty…” David Whyte Several years ago, I gave a brief lecture to about a hundred men at a conference in Minnesota on the differences between depression and despair. During the talk a tall man standing in the back of the room began weeping. At the […]

Unbecoming: From Despair to Love-Part 1

Here are, then, the fruits of this process that words will barely do justice to, if they will do it justice at all. Here in this house I will write what I know deep in the marrow of my bones what I believe today after a lifetime of searching, teaching, learning and more searching.